措。 我做错了。 这根本是我不该犯下的错误， 而我却一而再， 再而三的犯了。
WW 是补习班四年级的学生。 每个老师都知道他是很“皮”的学生， 上课捣蛋， 功课不做。 他的父亲准我们骂他， 我也这样对他又骂又吼了半年。
昨天上课，我又骂了他。到要作文时， 我累了， 跟同学们一起拟完大纲后， 我拉把椅子， 坐在 WW 前，着他写作文。 开始， 他胡乱写， 我只静静地拿了橡皮擦擦掉， 要他重写。 碰到不会写的字， 开始他大吼大叫， 我静静地问他哪个字不会写， 然后写在白板上， 之后他便直接问我， 不再那么吵闹了。 下课后， 我留他下来谈谈：
AT : WW, are you like that in your school as well?
WW : Yes.
AT : Why?
WW : I don't know.
AT : Ok. WW, do you know why I always scream at shout at you?
WW : Because I misbehave.
AT : If you know that I will do that if you misbehave, why do you do so?
WW : I don't know
AT : Ok, you like me to shout at you or speak to you softly?
WW : Speak to me softly.
AT : DO you want me to shout at you?
WW : No.
AT : Then what do you think you have to do?
WW : I have to behave in class.
AT : Ok, can we try that next lesson? Let's say for 5 or 10 minutes first?
WW : No. I have to behave for the whole lesson.
AT : Do you think you can do that?
WW : I try.
AT : Ok, We try next lesson. Can you remember?
WW : Yes.
回家时， 我回想之前听过老师说他来自破碎的家庭。 我也记起他父亲曾说若他不听话， 回家一定打他。 这时我知道， 对他吼是不行的， 因为他周围的人都吼他。 我想他只是要我们多关心他、 在乎他， 但我却没做到。 想想真是错的离谱。
希望下个星期他不会忘记他所过的话， 要尝试 behave in class. 我也要记住， 不能吼他， 因为我想他只是我能用对其他同学的态度对他。 我应该做得到。
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sounds like my student-Jasper and Nathan (my P5 boy). They shout across the class like nobody business. I told them that I do not like to shout at them and don't make me do so. Sometimes, they can make u very angry and at another moment, they make u laugh. I tried to refrain from laughing with them but I can't. they are really funny sometimes, I made an contract to do Drama with next fri and Jasper and Nathan want to join. Hope they will keep to the contract. (Only three rules)
well, WW is not keeping his promise. The thing is that he is not cute, he echoes whatever you say, shout his name at somebody's ears suddenly and make rude bleching noises or runs around. I have this class since january and he is getting worse. After lesson talks, he will make promises again, but reminding him during the next lesson does not help ...... i don't know what to do, or rather, I am tired ..... It does not help that his father always shouts at him or theaten to beat him if he misbehave ...... and I am under pressure from the centre to ensure that no student quits, which will be difficult if WW is still around as I have lost 2 students already ...... i really don't know what to do
Maybe you can let him know how you feel. Tell him that you are disappointed. You have tried so much for him yet he does not seems to appreciate. Children feel too so he will soften. My Jasper did last friday. :)
I tried that, but WW will not barged. He is still like that. I don't know what is happening and he refused to say anything. I feedback to the principal and the manager today when I was down at the centre. They say if really cannot, they will let go this kid in order to salvage the remainder pupils. I can ony see what I can do this week.
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